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Yesterday, a soap drama with the "bitch"
May 20th 2010 00:57
Nope, the episode is isn't over yet.
So, yesterday my good-ol-boss calls us (me, bitch, a senpai, boss)up on a mission to resolve the dispute. During the so-called-meeting-session, I told my boss that this is a minor issue and it doesn't have to be over exaggerated.
At the first part of the meeting, since I wasn't feel healthy at all (my head hurts, my runny nose, my eyes feels a bit hot then my throat, it feels like bags of sands were shoved into it) I was a bit quiet.
I just told them that it's true I used capslock on certain parts of my mails. Especially this one part where I put a paragraph before and after the statement. But, I AM NOT HYSTERICAL. I said I'm a blogger, not a chatter. When I wanted to emphasize something, I used capital letter. Even if I wanted to used other features as in bold, italic, underline, that html features is not applicable in our working email. So, I used caps lock to emphasize. And I told them that if I was under stress, you'd definitely see me screaming profanities..Colorful words will be flying out of my mouth XD and I add a comment by saying that I don't use emoticon since I suck at it.
I only told her certain parts, question on her actions and she still insisting that I was the big bad wolf. I pissed and to be honest, when I was pissed all the words that I already decides that I wont say as it would hurts her, is said. No censored version. I think my boss is shocked. I hope he recovered from his trauma lol
One of the thing that I question her is why did she forward the mail from me to our boss since I think that is not reasonable and irresponsible. And she said that she just wanted to confirmed what I say to her is true by forwarding it to my boss. Then she adds a comment saying that actually, she wanted to cc the first mail from her to our boss..and laugh. freaking laugh during I was pissed.
I snapped and I tell her in my sarcastic tones that if that is true why didn't you forward him your second email to my boss?why is it only me?then why was it when both of us were replying mails, you didn't said anything as if you were letting go of your hands after all the mess that you started. And I said that I don't think forwarding email to our boss is necessary since that issue is seriously, stupidly minor and it can be solved amongst us and no outsiders is needed as they didn't understands on what actually happens. Because of your action, now THIS *pointing to the meeting* is happen. She only shrinks at her seat without watching at me. No manner. Damn
There's a lot of things that I told her. One of it is labeling her as uncivilized and illogical. To tell you the truth, I don't want to use that word but somehow, she managed to annoy me to the point that my word filter switch in my brain is switched off temporarily.
Then I said to her, that please change your language when you are talking to me. and she was like "OK.OK. I understands.As I said before I am sorry for using the short forms". I said to her that she actually didn't understands what I am talking about. I said its not about the short forms, short forms are fine with me. But, I don't know you as much as you don't know me. I just told her that there's an invisible wall that actually differentiate between a friend and a colleagues. And I mentioned to her, when I read something, I also read the intonation of the writer. I can differentiate between jokes, order, commands, insult and neutral tone. And from her emails and IM's I bet it was order, commands, insult and annoyance. So all the misunderstanding comes from here as I said to her since I don't know her, so please don't used that friendly tone with me.
At the end of that so-called-meeting, I said to "ALL" of them. If you're not satisfy with me, you can meet me at my table. Scream at me, curse at me, becoming hysterical here at me..I'm fine. No talking at my back. And I said to her that my statement is universal and is applicable to all people here. I prefer not seeing anyone else's reaction is changed just because someone brings this story out of this walls and I tell her that I am not stupid and I can differentiate the treatment from my other colleagues.
All the while I was talking to her, she was facing other place and she won't stare me. If she is DEFINITELY right, then she would stare at me and stands at her feet..which is not. She should learn manner.
So, who do you think is to blame?
I think I am evil XD
After we left the meeting room, I thought everything was fine. So, I continued my job, went for another department meeting up until 3 and forget everything that has happens. After the tea break, the senpai who attends the so-called-meeting comes up to me and said she was on her way to go to surau (prayer room). So, she heard that the bitch was complaining to her "sisters" aka other senpai's in our department regarding the firing session. When the senpai and her friends enter the room, all of them suddenly hushed down.It was damn obvious.
So, who do you think is to blame??again?
I wrote it in my blog since I usually does it. If she doesn't go wagging her tails at other "sisters" asking them to sympathized with her and blaming everything on me, I won't even put this entry on my blog.
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